Free Conversation Guide
The Three Wins.
Design partnerships for the institution, for you, and for the person across the table. The questions I use to turn a sponsorship ask into a real partnership.
By Charney Robinson-Williams, Founder, Noire Impact · From “Rethink Networking: The Partnership Strategy That Opens Bigger Doors” · Dreamers & Doers · October 2026
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The Three Wins
A partnership conversation guide
01 The institution
02 Your organization
03 The person
The framework
Every partnership has three wins to design for.
Use these questions before, during and after an intro call to find all three. You won't ask every question. Pick three to five that fit, and keep it a conversation, not an interview.
01
The institution
The company, foundation, venue or brand — and the goals it's measured on.
02
Your organization
What you actually need: funding, access, visibility, clients.
03
The person
Their stakeholders, career, workload and what they want to be seen for. The win most people skip.
The playbook
Four steps, start to yes.
Step 1
Before the call — do your homework
Half of what you need you can learn before you ever get on a call. Spend 20 minutes here.
- What are they measured on this year? Check the annual report, impact report or grant guidelines.
- What have they sponsored, funded or partnered on in the past 12 months? What do those have in common?
- What's their role, how long have they been in it, and what do they post or speak about?
- What can you offer besides the ask — your audience, network, expertise, your ability to produce the thing?
Step 2
On the call — get to know the person, then the institution
Start human, not with your ask. The intro call isn't the pitch. It's the research.
- "What does a great partnership look like from your side of the table?"
- "What's something your team has done this year that you wish more people knew about?"
- "What's the big focus for your team this year? What would make it feel like a great year?"
- "When does your budget cycle open, and who's involved in that decision?"
Step 3
Right after — map the three wins
Fill this in while it's fresh. If one row is empty, you don't have a partnership yet. You have an ask.
- The institution: what they need, what I can offer, the clues from the call.
- My organization: same three columns.
- The person: same three columns — this is the row most people leave blank.
Step 4
After the call — keep them in mind
The partnership doesn't start when the contract is signed. It starts with what you do in the weeks after.
- Within 48 hours: a thank-you that names one thing they told you.
- Within 2 weeks: send one thing that helps them, with no ask attached.
- Before the proposal: draft it around the three wins, in their metrics and language.
- After the partnership: report back in the numbers they need, and give the person credit they can share.
Questions by partner type
Add two or three, depending on who's on the other side.
Venues, clubs & hospitality
For event and experience builders
- “Which months or days of the week are slower for you?”
- “Who do you want walking through your doors that isn't coming yet?”
- “Do you offer in-kind space, waived F&B minimums or member access for the right partners?”
Sponsors & funders
Corporations, foundations, financial institutions
- “What do you need to bring back to your team to justify a sponsorship or grant?”
- “Which audiences or communities are hard for you to reach directly?”
- “What would make this easy to say yes to internally?”
Corporate buyers
HR, L&D, people and marketing leaders
- “What problem would you love to have off your desk by next quarter?”
- “How do you usually bring in outside experts, and who signs off?”
- “What would make you look like a hero to your leadership?”
Referral partners
Experts who serve the same clients you do
- “Who's your ideal client, and at what moment do they usually find you?”
- “What do your clients need right before or right after they work with you?”
- “Would you want to co-host something for both of our client lists?”
Your existing clients
Bringing them into bigger rooms
- “Where do you want to be seen over the next year?”
- “Would you be open to showing up at an event or side event together?”
- “Who would you love an introduction to?”
The full guide, in one PDF.
Eight pages: the framework, the questions by partner type, the three-wins mapping sheet, and the follow-up cadence.
The easiest yes check
If you can't tick these, you're not ready to ask.
- I'm bringing the plan, not the problem: the idea, the timeline and who does what.
- I can show how this hits a number they already report on.
- This gives the person a win they can share with their stakeholders.
- What I'm asking for is as small and specific as it can be.
- I have one thing I can offer them now, with no ask attached.
“It's not ‘if I do this, you'll do that.' It's goodwill that compounds.”
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